<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" standalone="yes"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"><channel><title>Personal essays on Henrik Selje Bygnes</title><link>https://henriksb.com/essays/personal/</link><description>Recent content in Personal essays on Henrik Selje Bygnes</description><generator>Hugo -- gohugo.io</generator><language>en</language><managingEditor>henriksb@pm.me (Henrik Selje Bygnes)</managingEditor><webMaster>henriksb@pm.me (Henrik Selje Bygnes)</webMaster><copyright>Copyright 2026 Henrik Selje Bygnes</copyright><lastBuildDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 00:00:00 +0000</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://henriksb.com/essays/personal/index.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title>The Life I Kept Postponing</title><link>https://henriksb.com/essays/personal/the-life-i-kept-postponing/</link><pubDate>Tue, 03 Nov 2026 00:00:00 +0000</pubDate><author>henriksb@pm.me (Henrik Selje Bygnes)</author><guid>https://henriksb.com/essays/personal/the-life-i-kept-postponing/</guid><description>I&amp;rsquo;ve spent years trying to become someone I&amp;rsquo;d be happy being. Lately, I&amp;rsquo;m wondering whether I need to fix everything before I&amp;rsquo;m allowed to have something good.</description></item></channel></rss>